Wed
Oct
29
The Fashion of the Pickup Artist Pt.2
(continued from part 1)There was about a couple of times that I did the
peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard
that other guys were doing it.
I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally
incongruent with my personality.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man,
as we all know.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something
really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best
pickups occurred.
I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or
super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not
respond well to this.
This make me think… that maybe this is not on how much
the clothes cost or how flashy they are…
Maybe there’s something else aside from that.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must
manage, or balance these two things.
The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are
totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying
to impress her or make her like you.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of
getting women’s attention, they’ll see you coming a mile a
way and put up their defenses.
You DON’T WANT to look like a pick up artist.
It’s better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought
into it.
However, you don’t want to look sloppy. You want to present
yourself in the best way you can.
This gets back to self-expression.
You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what
your “scene” is, what you think is cool.
Don’t change that.
Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color.
This isn’t rocket science. Go to an upscale men’s clothing
store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle
free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about
bringing you around her friends.
Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they
BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your
shoulders.
Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Clean up yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a
respectable haircut. Figure out what looks great for if you
shave or not to shave, and take it all the way.
One other piece…
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look
of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
Make out for your intuition with this one. I don’t want to
say too much because that’s a whole other topic.
