Fashion For The Pickup Artist Pt. 1
I am NOT the most fashionable guy in the world.
I usually let my girlfriend pick out clothes for me - not for MY benefit..
… but so that she doesn’t feel embarrassed when we go out in public together!
If I were the one to pick my clothes, I’d rather pick the sweats and t-shirt, coupled with my old worn sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is silly.
I can absolutely appreciate the aspect of design and style of fashion. When I looked at the able-bodied dressed woman, her outfits is like of art, and I dig that.
But when a man is “too stylish” I kinda lose respect for him.
Don’t get me wrong, a man should present himself like he means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality, well-fitting clothes are a fundamental part of masculine expression.
But some guys take this so much.
Case in point, the obsession with “peacocking” in the pickup Community for the past several years.
When I hear this term it makes me cringe.
YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.
Let me explain what is “peacocking,” in case you’re not familiar.
A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based “game,” relying heavily on superficial techniques, status games, and over-analysis of social interactions.
This always gone in the opposite direction and I never saw the value of it.
The main reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.
On top of that, the FIRST FOCUS of all that strategy and game-playing was to eventually get approval from women, while making them feel insecure so they’d think you were cooler than them.
Think about the layers in the dating approach. Not only are you faking your personality because you
a) seek approval (as if women has an authority on what makes man a man)
b) hide the fact that you’re seeking approval
c) play games with women so that they feel insecure and try to seek your approval
YUCK
“Peacock,” is one of the main techniques of this approach as to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that women would “notice” you and want to talk to you.
Now there’s nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a necklace that has some personal meaning.
I don’t want women to like me because of that.
I’m pretty sure a lot of men has seen this approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this hare-brained “technique.”
I’ve personally encountered students of other pickup schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only nervous, clumsy, misdirected…they looked RETARDED.
So I’d like to set a record when it comes to fashion and meeting girls.
There are only few things that you need to focus when it comes to your appearance.
After you get this stuff handled, you should put it out of your mind, and not wait for women to notice you before you TAKE ACTION.
Before I go on, I have to reveal a secret.
(To be Continued in Part 2)
